Black Pearls of Genealogy

The process to obtain copies of a marriage license or a marriage certificate can vary depending on whether the marriage occurred in the U.S. or abroad. Here’s a general guide for both scenarios:

For Marriages in the U.S.

Marriage License:

  • Before Marriage: This is obtained before the marriage ceremony. Couples usually apply for a marriage license at their local county clerk’s office or vital records office.
  • After Marriage: If you need a copy after the wedding, you can request it from the same office where you initially applied.

Marriage Certificate:

  • After Marriage is Solemnized: This is issued after the marriage ceremony, confirming that the marriage has taken place.
  • Obtaining Copies: You can get a copy from the vital records office in the state where the marriage was performed. This often requires filling out a request form, paying a fee, and providing necessary identification.

For Marriages Abroad

Marriage License:

The concept of a “marriage license” before marriage may not exist in all countries. If required, it’s typically obtained from local authorities where the marriage will occur.

 

Marriage Certificate:

  • Obtaining Original: After the marriage, a marriage certificate is issued by the local authorities in the country where the marriage took place.
  • Obtaining Copies: To get a copy, you’ll have to contact the appropriate foreign office. This might be a local civil registry, town hall, or other government entity.
  • For Use in the U.S.: If you need to use this document in the U.S., it may require an apostille or a U.S. consular seal to be legally recognized. This process depends on the country of marriage and whether that country is part of the Hague Apostille Convention.

Official recording of vital records by US state

State Birth Records Marriage Records Death Records
Alabama 1908 1936 1908
Alaska 1913 1913 1913
Arizona 1909 1909 1909
Arkansas 1914 1917 1914
California 1905 1905 1905
Colorado 1907 1907 1907
Connecticut 1897 1897 1897
Delaware 1861 1847 1881
District of Columbia 1874 1811 1874
Florida 1899 1927 1899
Georgia 1919 1952 1919
Hawaii 1842 1842 1859
Idaho 1911 1947 1911
Illinois 1916 1962 1916
Indiana 1907 1958 1899
Iowa 1880 1880 1880
Kansas 1911 1913 1911
Kentucky 1911 1958 1911
Louisiana 1914 none 1914
Maine 1892 1892 1892
Maryland 1898 1950 1898
Massachusetts 1841 1841 1841
Michigan 1867 1867 1867
Minnesota 1900 1958 1908
Mississippi 1912 1926 1912
Missouri 1910 1881 1910
Montana 1907 1943 1907
Nebraska 1905 1909 1905
Nevada 1911 1968 1911
New Hampshire 1901 1901 1901
New Jersey 1848 1848 1848
New Mexico 1920 1920 1920
New York State 1880 1880 1880
North Carolina 1913 1962 1913
North Dakota 1907 1925 1907
Ohio 1908 1949 1908
Oklahoma 1908 1908 1908
Oregon 1903 1906 1903
Pennsylvania 1906 1885 1906
Rhode Island 1853 1853 1853
South Carolina 1915 1950 1915
South Dakota 1905 1905 1905
Tennessee 1908 1945 1908
Texas 1903 1966 1903
Utah 1905 1887 1905
Vermont 1955 1955 1955
Virginia 1912 1912 1912
Washington State 1907 1968 1907
West Virginia 1917 1964 1917
Wisconsin 1907 1907 1907
Wyoming 1909 1941 1909

Marriage in Slave States

The legalization of marriage for enslaved individuals in the United States varied by state and was primarily a consequence of the Civil War and the subsequent Reconstruction era. Prior to these changes, enslaved people were not legally recognized to marry in slave states, as they were considered property and lacked legal personhood.

Legalization of Slave Marriages:

Pre-Civil War Era:

  1. Slave Laws and Status: Under slave laws, enslaved people were considered property, not legal persons. This status denied them basic rights, including the right to legally marry. Slave marriages, if they occurred, were informal and not recognized by law.
  2. Resistance and Informal Marriages: Despite the lack of legal recognition, enslaved individuals often engaged in their own forms of marriage ceremonies, which held significant cultural and personal importance. These ceremonies varied and often included rituals like “jumping the broom.”
  3. Impact on Families: Slave owners frequently separated families, which was a brutal aspect of slavery. This lack of legal recognition for marriages and families facilitated the commodification and dehumanization of enslaved people.

Civil War and Emancipation:

  1. Emancipation Proclamation (1863): This executive order by President Lincoln declared freedom for slaves in Confederate states but did not immediately address the issue of marriage.
  2. Confederate States’ Response: Some Confederate states began to grapple with the issue of slave marriages towards the end of the war, recognizing that the institution of slavery was crumbling.

Reconstruction Era:

  • Freedmen’s Bureau (1865-1872): This federal agency played a vital role in transitioning former slaves to freedom. It provided various services, including the facilitation of legal marriages. The Bureau often held mass marriage ceremonies to legitimize pre-existing relationships.

U. S., Freedmen’s Bureau Marriages, 1861 – 1872

  • Civil Rights Act of 1866: This act was a significant step in ensuring civil rights for former slaves, including the right to make and enforce contracts, which implicitly included marriage contracts.
  • 14th and 15th Amendments: These amendments were crucial in granting citizenship and voting rights to former slaves, further embedding their civil rights into the Constitution.

State-by-State Legalization:

  1. Varied Timelines: Each former Confederate state had a different timeline for readmission to the Union, which affected when marriages of formerly enslaved individuals were recognized legally.
  2. State Constitutions: New or amended state constitutions during Reconstruction often included provisions for civil rights, including marriage.
  3. Local Resistance: Despite these legal changes, there was significant resistance at the local and state levels. Black Codes and later Jim Crow laws sought to undermine the rights granted during Reconstruction.

Social and Cultural Impact:

  1. Community Building: The legalization of marriage was crucial in allowing African Americans to legitimize and protect their families, which was a fundamental aspect of community building and resistance to oppression.
  2. Legal and Social Challenges: Even after the legalization of marriage, African American couples faced ongoing discrimination and legal challenges, particularly in the Jim Crow South.
  3. Historiography: The study of slave marriages and their legalization provides valuable insights into the resilience of enslaved communities, the complexities of the Reconstruction era, and the ongoing struggle for civil rights in America.

 

The journey towards the legalization of marriages for enslaved individuals was not just a legal process but also a deeply human struggle for dignity, family, and recognition. Understanding this history is crucial in comprehending the broader narrative of slavery, emancipation, and civil rights in the United States.

Cohabitation Records, 1861 – 1872

Cohabitation Records, historically significant in the context of genealogical and social history research, are documents that list couples, often formerly enslaved, who were living together as husband and wife. These records became particularly important in the United States after the Civil War.

 

During slavery, enslaved individuals were not legally allowed to marry. After emancipation, many states, especially in the Southern United States enacted laws to legitimize the marriages of formerly enslaved couples. Cohabitation records were created as part of this process. They often include the names of the individuals in the relationship, their ages, the number of years they had been living together, and sometimes the names of their children.

These records serve as valuable tools for researchers and descendants tracing African American ancestry, as they provide a rare glimpse into the personal lives of enslaved individuals whose experiences and relationships were often not formally documented during the era of slavery.